"Society in every state is a blessing, but government, even in its best state, is but a necessary evil; in its worst state, an intolerable one."
— Thomas Paine (http://mises.org/daily/2897)

You are conflating the Social Sphere with the Political Sphere. This is a false dichotomy. Read Franz Oppenheimer. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Franz_Oppenheimer)